Can a Polygraph Test save your relationship?
A Polygraph or Lie Detector Test is the measurement of your body’s reactions breathing, sweat, heart rate and pulse to questions in order to determine the truth. It is widely used across the world for many different reasons but one of the major ones are matrimonial or relationship issues.
How can a polygraph test possibly “save” a relationship? Well it all depends on the issue that you have in your relationship but let’s work on some different examples.
“The truth is, and you can test me on this, the polygraph saved my marriage. I’m indebted to it. It has made it so that lying is not an option. The last polygraph examiner we used was impressed with what we were doing. He said the test has only recently been recommended by marriage counsellors for use in bringing relationships back from the brink.” ¹
The Sex Addict
Your partner has some sort of addiction, this can be anything from prostitution, pornography or a fetish that you find disturbing. There are two scenarios, one you suspect them or two they have admitted it and you want to confirm it hasn’t happened since.
The first scenario can be resolved with a single polygraph test, using the right questions our examiners will interview and conduct a polygraph test on your partner to determine the truth. In most circumstances the results of the test can be given then and there to both you and your partner.
The second scenario requires a little more but is entirely up to you how much or how little we do for you. Your partner has admitted that they have an issue and you are concerned they might have not been entirely honest with its extent or slipped up. We recommend your partner admit everything to you before we arrive to conduct a polygraph test. The polygraph test will determine if there is anything they may have left out. We can then visit you again sometime later and conduct another polygraph test to insure there have been no further incidents.
Your partner will be under the knowledge that at any time you could request a further test and that honesty is the only way forward. You can find out more how it helped a couple by clicking here.
The Accusations Scenario
You travel a lot, have a job that requires late nights or the occasional trip away and your partner is always accusing you of having an affair or cheating on them in the some way or another. It’s understandable that your partner may have these thoughts but how do you build up their trust in you. The answer is simple volunteer to take a polygraph test, our polygraph experts will conduct a test using question that will reassure your partner you have been faithful. If there been any admissions on your part our experts will adjust the questions accordingly.
The Admission’s Scenario
Your partner admitted to something but you are still not sure that they have told the whole truth or they have started some similar habits again. This is quite common and more often than not your partner might be holding something back in their eyes to protect your relationship further.
“My wife has recently found out I’ve been unfaithful to her during our marriage. I have held back on telling her everything. She now has scheduled a lie detector test for me so she can get her answers. I believe this could ruin our marriage and I really do not want that to happen. What advice can anyone give to me, I don’t want to go through with the lie detector test, how do I get out of it without looking guilty.” ²
We found this quote on forum and it shows the power the polygraph test can have.
Once the truth is out there it is up to you whether you want to save your relationship or not. But it is well known amongst councillors and therapists that truth and continued honesty is the one thing that will help you save a relationship in these scenarios. Having polygraph test every know and again is well known to help build the trust back in your relationship. Book your test now by giving Agents For Truth a call our examiners are based across the UK and abroad.